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By revealing the feelings behind the outside feelings, then you open yourself fully to your spouse, giving them an understanding of your inner world, which is a lot more complicated and" real" than anything that you generally reveal to others.
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It is a fantastic idea to keep this feeling to yourself until you have been dating some time or until he says the" L" word first. You could end up back in the dating pool, if you say it before he is ready.
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