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Your inner self becomes cluttered rather than sees the sunshine and never finds anything which will allow it to grow, if you keep the mask. Your self becomes at least less powerful- - or smaller- - until it is so small you might not even have the ability to find your personal identity. Meanwhile, the casing around you grows more difficult and thicker all the time.
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